Of course, a man can fall deeply in love with a woman for various reasons, and usually it is for various reasons. The reasons that you fell in love with your wife may be completely different than the reasons your best friend fell in love with his girlfriend, or your father fell in love with your mother.
Yet, there are some commonalities of attraction and love that are noteworthy, especially when we’re trying to determine just why we fell so hard for our significant other in the first place. What follows is a list of six of the most common reasons why a man may fall deeply in love with a woman.
1. She Has a Mind of Her Own
Is there anything more attractive than a woman who has a mind of her own—maybe one full of ideas, jokes, and insightful thoughts—and isn’t afraid to show it? The answer: Probably not.
Although a man is obviously more likely to notice a woman’s physical appearance before the brilliance of her mind—the idea of “love at first sight” pretty much depends upon a man falling in love with a woman’s appearance—it is the woman’s mind that ultimately draws in a man and keeps him under her spell.
William Shakespeare says it best in his play, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream”: “Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.”
2. She Has Similar Interests
It is not absolutely necessary that a man and woman share similar interests in order for him to fall deeply in love with her, but it does help since sharing similar interests typically means there is an opportunity for deeper understanding of one another.
Additionally, when a man and woman share similar interests, there’s a possibility that it could also result in fewer arguments since they are less likely to argue about where they want to go for dinner, which movie they want to see afterward, or what type of activity to squeeze into a Saturday afternoon.
In other words, a man and a woman will spend less time bickering with one another and more time enjoying one another’s company when they have similar interests!
3. She is Understanding and Accepting
To be quite frank, it is basically impossible for a man to fall in love with a woman if she is not willing to understand him and accept him for who he is as a person, and vice versa.
When a woman chooses not to understand or accept a man for some reason or another—maybe she does not like his career of choice, his friends, or the fact that he watches football every Sunday afternoon as a sort of ritual—this may cause him to start questioning who he even is as a person, and whether or not he understands and accepts himself.
And if he cannot understand or accept himself, then it’s highly unlikely that he is going to fall deeply in love with the woman who initially made him question himself.
4. She is Physically Attractive
Many people might start with this one since—as noted above—“love at first sight” depends upon a man being able to fall deeply in love with a woman based on her appearance. It’s true that this can happen: We’ve not only seen it in every single romantic comedy but have also probably experienced it for ourselves at one point or another.
It is definitely important for a man and a woman to be physically attracted to another, and it accounts for falling in love in the most literal sense: Love-making.
However, it is also imperative that the fact that a woman is physically attractive is not the only reason that you fall deeply in love with her because—just like with all living creatures—human beings get old. And when human beings get old, their looks tend to change and sometimes fade.
This is true of both men and women.
5. She is Emotionally Stable
Emotionally stable people—and not just women—are somewhat difficult to come across these days, especially when we’re living in such a high-stress and anxiety laden society. So, when we do come across that emotionally stable gem of a woman, it’s completely normal to fall head over heels in love with her!
Finding an emotionally stable woman might also influence a man’s own emotional stability, as well. If he has emotional difficulties—such as difficulties expressing how he is feeling or even understanding how he is feeling—then an emotionally stable woman will be able to bring out the best in him, and he the best in her, too!
6. She Has a Beautiful Soul
Finally—and this one is a bit difficult to describe—a man is likely to fall deeply in love with a woman if she has an innately beautiful soul meaning that she is just as, or even more, beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.
A beautiful soul actually encapsulates many of the other items listed above: An independent mind, an empathetic and understanding personality, and emotional stability to tie it all together. You might also expect a woman with a beautiful soul to be kind and compassionate, caring and nurturing, and a good listener and communicator.
Not only is a beautiful soul something that genuinely makes it easy and exciting to love a woman—as Crystal Woods says, “falling in love with the same person repeatedly is extraordinary”—but, unlike physical appearance, a beautiful soul never ages.
In fact, a beautiful soul just tends to become more beautiful with time.
If a man falls in love with a woman purely because he loves her soul, then time is not a factor in his deep love for her. He will keep loving her into old age, which is—perhaps—the most important thing when it comes to love, in general.
Love—at least real love, anyway—is timeless.
References:
- What Makes A Man Fall Deeply In Love With A Woman?
https://www.stylecraze.com/articles/what-makes-a-man-fall-in-love/
- Write like no one is reading Quotes
https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/44072611-write-like-no-one-is-reading - A Midsummer Night’s Dream Quotes
https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/894834-a-midsummer-night-s-dream